Look Both Ways!

Have you ever been in a controlling or emotional demanding relationship?

At this point in my life i can say that i am tired of being bossed around. Just because our title is byfriend and girlfriend exclusively does not mean that you have control.

When a guy or a girl gets control over your mind the usually get control over your body whether it is sexually or physical abuse. They start to demand sex or else. they will cheat or find it somewhere else. Tell them to kick rocks, no one owns anyone.
I just think its weird how people can get caught up in the thrills of LOVE. It can break you as a person....you can lose face value....

Value as a person mentally.... cutting off all your friends just because that person didnt like your friends or the fact that you have friends of the opposite sex. You start to hang out with that person and feel alone with your back against the wall giving in to their every whim.
Now there is nothing wrong with doing things for the person you love but there is something wrong when you do things for the one you love just because you are scared that they will leave you or that they will do damage to your value.
or maybe just value....

You could be spending your last dime on the person you call your love and they could care less about the suffering you go through. Its not about money its about te relationship you share with that other person.
Whats the real reason you love me??

trust is a major part in a relationship but.... when you trust each other but the trust is a lie...
You can trust that person but all signs lead to cheating and you can feel it in your gut...or better yet you get a symptom you never had....(pause)
Yeah trust goes a long way.... there is always that person that gives their heart up with out any boundaries and ends up being hurt.

Dont play love softly....having a hard heart isnt a bad thing it protects you from the things that wil hurt you most...have a hard heart but an open mind for love.